What Sex Means to Men

Visual Creatures

Women don’t always realize it at first, but females that are in relationships will discover, with time, that men are visual creatures. They are not going to be stimulated by conversation the way that they are stimulated by visual images. That is what they find sexy. This is what gets them in the mood when the lights go down.

The Allure Of Cleavage

Some women assume that getting undressed is all that it takes to set the mood. The reality, however, is that men are quite fond of women that have their clothes on. It is the cliché but all so true concept of leaving something to the imagination that works for many men. What men are attracted to is the chase, the allure of what is to come. Sure, a woman could completely undress and abandon all of her undergarments, but there is no fun in that.

Men are not going to find that sexy. He may stare for a couple of minutes, but the fun in that is soon over after he has touched and grabbed. A woman that knows how to present sexy cleavage, however, can get a man’s attention all night. It becomes almost impossible not to stare because there is all of this built up anticipation. That is the real game changer. Women that have experience with tempting men and leading them on know this concept very well.

High Heels

There is a reason that women wear high heels, and it has nothing to do with comfort. In fact, most high heels are uncomfortable. The stilettos, for example, are very high. These higher shoes tend to raise the level of discomfort, but it also raises the level of sexy in the eyes on men that are checking out the way that women walk around in these high heels. When you add a skirt in the mix it becomes close to impossible for a man not to take a second – and sometimes third and fourth – look. It is a fashion statement that is sexy to the 10th power. There is no better way to turn a man on than by bringing in the high heel pumps. This works from the club all the way to the bedroom.


The lingerie is somewhat of a given when it comes to what men find sexy. The concept of the g-string and lacy garments are always going to get the attention of any heterosexual men. It is just something that men take interest in regardless of the size of a woman. Physical dimensions do not matter much as long as there is lace and a g-string to entice.

Lipstick and Makeup

Some women go all natural with no makeup, but men are fans of the different colors of lipstick. This changes the physical appearance of the woman. When they are well-groomed it makes a woman more appeasing. Eyebrows arched and brightly colored nails can grab the attention of men. It tends to give a woman level of confidence that brings about a sexy demeanor.

Sexy Voices

A woman that has a voice that is sexy is also going to have a lot of admirers. A sexy voice can really be a major turn-on for a man that is trying to have a conversation with a woman. A man that is listening to the words that a woman is saying may easily become attracted to her just from listening to what she is saying. A sexy voice can work wonders when it comes to getting someone to take notice of you.


Women may not think about this instantly but there is a lot to be said for a woman that is confident. When a woman is confident about who she is it becomes something else that men will find themselves attracted to. It is a sexy quality that many people have not give much thought to this is true.